“When I was in kindergarten, I was in the gym with her teams every day after school, just sitting there and doing my homework,” Gretchen Dolan said. “Getting to varsity and playing with those girls, who were already my friends, was definitely a cool experience and something that I learned from early on going into high school.”
After moving up to varsity full-time as an eighth grader, Gretchen’s basketball endeavors crossed state lines after she earned the opportunity to join an AAU team in Philadelphia. Traveling over six hours to make the journey from western New York to eastern Pennsylvania, the Dolan family made sacrifices to commute to the City of Brotherly Love nearly every weekend to attend practices and tournaments.
Though Kristen expressed some initial hesitancy, she ultimately realized the offer was too good to pass up. Gretchen’s involvement became a team effort, and she has no regrets about letting her daughter compete in Philly.
“We sat down with Gretchen, and that's what she wanted,” Kristen Dolan said. “We would leave either Friday after school or super early, like 4, 4:30, 5 in the morning. We'd have a two-hour practice Saturday, we'd stay over, have another two-hour practice on Sunday, and then head back.
“There were great people, and the coaches were wonderful. She's the first to remember how important they all were, and she's very grateful for the opportunity that she was given. It was a good time to get out of the area and for her to go play with the best of the best.”
Traveling as far as Las Vegas for tournaments with her eighth-grade AAU team, Gretchen would sometimes stay with her teammates when her parents or siblings were not able to stay in Philly. Kristen credits those families for making the experience possible.
“We'd make new friends, and the parents would say, ‘Just leave her here for when you come back next weekend.’” Kristen Dolan said. “I literally left her with these wonderful families that we had just met.”
Back in New York, Gretchen excelled in her freshman season at Williamsville South, recording 14.7 points, 2.3 rebounds, 3.5 assists, 3.0 steals, and 0.8 blocks per game during the 2019-20 campaign. The following year, she took another step forward by averaging 27.3 points, 4.6 rebounds, 5.8 assists, 5.3 steals, and 1.2 blocks in the team’s 13-game COVID-shortened campaign.